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THE PARABLE OF THE CHILDREN PLAYING IN THE MARKET-PLACE

(Matthew 11:16-19; Luke 7:31-35)

 

16 To what can I compare this generation?  They are like children sitting in the marketplaces and calling out to others:
17 “We played the flute for you, and you did not dance; we sang a dirge, [a funeral song] and you did not mourn.”
18 For John came neither eating nor drinking[1], and they say, “He has a demon.”
19 The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, “Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.”  But wisdom is proved right by her actions.

(But wisdom is proved right by all her children. Luke 7:35)

 

A JUDGMENTAL GENERATION CONDEMNED

Jesus noticed children at play outdoors and drew a parallel with his contemporaries, or “this generation”.  They were like complaining and wilful children arguing with one another because some wanted to play a wedding game, and some wanted to a play a funeral game, and some refused to play at all, so the children could not be satisfied with either game.  They could not be pleased with anything.

Similarly, Jesus said, there was no pleasing the general public in Israel.  They were unreasonable and spoilt like children that would not play with others unless they were in charge of the game.  The crowds complained about both John’s asceticism and Christ’s socializing and his love of people.  Consequently Israel failed to discern God’s wisdom or hear God’s call in both these ministries with their different life-styles. 

With this parable Jesus condemned the irresponsibility of his generation for their rejection of both John the Baptist and himself.  A favoured generation ignored the best of preaching.  God holds us responsible for the truth that we have been given. (Romans 2:11-16)  God eventually abandons those who deliberately chose to persistently ignore him.

“Wisdom” (verse 19) is John and Jesus, and “children” are those who accept their message from God.  God’s “wisdom” is “justified” (or “vindicated”) by the “actions” of those who responded positively to John and Jesus whom a prejudiced generation had ignored.  Those who wish to avoid the truth about the message usually criticise some aspect of the messenger. 

Focusing upon the style and method of a preacher can easily become an excuse for not taking notice of his message.  Furthermore it is easy for Christians to become judgmental of other churches, or condemn the behaviour of those outside the Church, when similar criticisms are true of some within the Church.

A FAVOURED GENERATION

John The Baptist

A favoured generation had seen the greatest preacher in Israel for 400 years, the Elijah of prophecy (Matthew 11:14; Malachi 4:5), and experienced a challenging revival: “People went out to him [John] from Jerusalem and all Judea and the whole region of the Jordan.  Confessing their sins, they were baptized by him in the Jordan River.” (Matthew 3:5-6)  His ministry was the climax of the Law and the prophets (Matthew 11:13).  Jesus said of John, “Among those born of women there has not risen anyone greater than John the Baptist.” (Matthew 11:11)  John was the greatest man to live under the old covenant.  However, it was the beginning of the new covenant and John was a link between the Old Testament and the New Testament. 

Jesus The Messiah

The ministry of Jesus as the Messiah was even more powerful in word and action than any of the previous prophets in Israel.  The apostle Peter summarized Christ’s ministry: “God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Spirit and power, and how he went around doing good and healing all who were under the power of the devil, because God was with him.” (Acts 10:38).  The title “Son of Man” (verse 19) was frequently used by Jesus of himself as an indirect reference to the Messiah.  While the phrase emphasized his humanity, several images from the Old Testament also picture Jesus as a person with divine authority who was vindicated by God, despite his rejection by his generation.  Many in Israel, especially the religious leaders, rejected both John and Jesus, like spoilt children who were upset with their friends.

A CHILDISH GENERATION

John and Jesus had contrasting life-styles and different messages.  But Israel found fault with both of them.  For them John was too eccentric, a crazy fanatic, (“He has a demon.”) and Jesus was too worldly and too friendly with “sinners” or bad company, (“Here is a glutton and a drunkard.”) 

The Jews had an exaggerated picture of John the Baptist as a stern and fanatically uncompromising prophet, compared to a liberal and loose living Jesus who mixed freely with social outcasts, with a message of salvation by grace.  The religious leaders condemned Jesus as an apostate, or a traitor to his faith, because he mixed with those who were considered to be beyond salvation, like prostitutes and tax collectors.

Jesus compared his generation to childish children who were pleased with nothing that God did.  It was a generation that would not mourn to John’s lament or dance to Christ’s happy tune.  The phrase “this generation” was used by Matthew of Israel’s rejection of Jesus as the Messiah.[2]  While the common people “ held that John was a prophet”, the Pharisees and spiritual leaders did not honour John as such (Matthew 21:23, 26).  This parable revealed their stubborn unbelief and spiritual blindness.  It was not just the legalistic Pharisees, but also “this generation,” which strongly disapproved of these two ministries.  Spiritual privileges are an immense advantage, but a fearful responsibility if neglected.

In several parables, such as the loving father (Luke 15:11–32) and the two debtors (Luke 7:36-50), Jesus defended his association with “sinners” by illustrating God’s love to the worst of them.  In these stories, the sulky older brother, whose self-righteous pride kept him from the family celebration and the Pharisees are represented in the characters of Simon, the spiritually blind Pharisee.

GOD’S JUDGMENT AND GOD’S GRACE

John the Baptist lived ascetically, “neither eating nor drinking” i.e., neither attending parties nor drinking alcohol.  Although he drew large crowds and many in Israel repented, yet Israel as a whole rejected him, even suggesting that he was demon possessed.  However, when Jesus came eating and drinking he was accused of being a “bon vivant” (one who enjoys the good things of life), guilty of gluttony, drunkenness, and mixing with social undesirables.  Their lives reflected their different messages: John focussed on God’s judgment while Jesus emphasized God’s grace.  If Israel had understood John, it would have understood Jesus, and vice versa.

The children who wanted to play the glad wedding game represent the Jews who wanted John the Baptist to “lighten up” and moderate his fierce message of repentance and judgment, “We played the flute for you, and you did not dance.”  On the other hand, the children who wanted to play the sad funeral game represent the Jews who wanted Jesus to “mourn” that is, to be less affable and more seriously religious, “We sang a dirge, and you did not mourn.”  Since neither John nor Jesus lived up to their unreasonable expectations, they criticized and condemned both ministries.  This interpretation puts the children’s complaints in the same chronological order of the ministries of John and Jesus.

THE CONCLUSION OF THE PARABLE

The closing proverb has led to some debate because Luke has “all her children” and Matthew “by her actions.”  In the Old Testament book of Proverbs “Wisdom” is a personification of God.  When Jesus says, “Wisdom is vindicated by her deeds,” he refers to himself, the ultimate wise teacher and prophet. 

The proverb is also interpreted to mean that the claims of wisdom are proved true by her children i.e. those who accept the message of John and Jesus.  Wisdom in the Bible is practical and concerned with right living.  John and Jesus had both been criticized and rejected for the way they lived, but their lifestyles are both recognized as being wise by those like repentant tax collectors and prostitutes who were rejected as hopeless outcasts by Israel’s religious leaders.  What is right has a way of being justified in the long term.

FOR REFLECTION

  • We are judged by what we do with the privileges and opportunities that we have.  Do we have anything to repent of?
  • God uses different preachers with different methods.  Do I find fault with the ministry of today’s messengers from God?
  • “I know what I believe.  Don’t confuse me with the facts!”  Sometimes we are so caught up with our belief system that we have difficulty in looking at things from another perspective.
  • Jesus associated with the social and moral outcasts of his day.  Does he expect his followers to do the same today?
  • “John was too funereal, Jesus was too convivial.”  There is no pleasing some people.  The closed mind can always find fault and find excuses not to respond to the gospel.
  • The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, “Here is a glutton and a drunkard” (verse 19). [Or “wine drinker”, Amplified Bible]  How would you describe the attitude of Jesus to alcohol?
  • It seems that Jesus enjoyed life like a normal person and took part in joyous occasions such as wedding celebrations, where food and drink were consumed in larger amounts than at a regular mealtime. (Matthew 9:10-11; Luke 15:1-2; John 2:1-11).  Why then have some legalistic churches imposed extra-biblical restrictions on their congregations?

PRAYER

Heavenly Father, remind us that your character reflects both the ministries of John and Jesus, and that you are a God of judgment and a God of love.  Remind us that the Christian life is a feast, and not a funeral.  Help us to mourn and dance at the right time.  Amen.

Jim Peacock MA (Hons), Diploma of Teaching


[1] Since the expression “eating and drinking” can refer to more than just food, translators have tried “When the Son of man came, he enjoyed eating and drinking (wine),” “ate and drank with great enjoyment,” or “ate and drank well.”
(The UBS Handbook Series.  Copyright 1961-1997, by United Bible Societies) 

[2] See Matthew 12:41-42, 45; 23:36; 24:34.

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